The Moment Tom Jones Nearly Broke Down Singing “Patches” with Big John Sullivan – A Son’s Promise to His Father
In 1970, during an episode of This Is Tom Jones, a quiet, emotional moment unfolded onstage as Tom Jones performed “Patches” with Big John Sullivan. What many viewers didn’t know was that this wasn’t just a duet—it was a true story of poverty, loss, and the promise a young boy made to his dying father.
The true story behind “Patches”
“Patches” was inspired by the real childhood of songwriter Chairman Dunbar, who grew up in deep poverty in Alabama. The song tells the story of a young boy in the rural South, surrounded by hardship and burdened with adult responsibilities after his father falls ill. Dunbar’s memories became the backbone of one of the most heartfelt songs of the 1970s.
Why did Tom Jones choose to sing it?
Although Tom Jones was at the peak of his career—known for powerful, full-energy performances—he chose a heartbreaking ballad like “Patches.”
Why?
Because he saw himself in that story.
Growing up in a working-class mining family in Wales, Tom often felt the same weight of responsibility. When he heard the line “I’m depending on you, son…” he said it reminded him of his own father’s voice.
Big John Sullivan’s role – and the moment the stage fell silent
Big John Sullivan, a powerful Black vocalist admired by Tom, joined him for the performance. Their contrasting yet complementary voices—British and Southern American—created an emotional resonance rarely captured on live television.
Mid-song, Tom lowered his head, visibly holding back tears. Offstage, he later admitted:
“I saw myself in that little boy.”
Why this performance remains one of Tom Jones’ most human moments
Audiences often describe this duet as more than just a musical performance—it felt like two men retelling the lives of countless families who lived through poverty and loss.
In 1970, during a time when America was still divided by race, Tom and Big John stood together and performed a shared emotional truth. For many, that moment symbolized the healing power of music.
More than a song—it’s every child’s promise
“Patches” is ultimately about a child trying to fulfill his father’s last wish. That raw emotional truth is why the Tom Jones & Big John Sullivan version remains one of the most powerful renditions ever filmed.